An adoptive family should:
Look into having a home study or update.
Adoptive family should locate an adoption lawyer and be aware of their
state’s laws and interstate compact laws on private adoption. (In some states,
in order to avoid the appearance of impropriety, the adoption should be handled
through a licensed adoption lawyer or agency. We can help you find a pro-life lawyer).
Adoptive families can pay for the birth of baby and care of birth mother if
they wish, but
may not give her cash gifts for her baby. Check our your insurance
companies stipulations for adopted children if any. Watch for pre-existing
conditions and genetic considerations.
Adoptive family should be willing to pray and receive God’s will for the
birth mom’s, baby’s and their lives, no matter what the decision reached by the
birth mom.
Dear Birth Mom letters are VERY important. Your personal
experience about why you chose to give life to your special needs baby instead
of abortion, can be instrumental in saving the life of this baby.
Suggestions on how to write a letter like this,
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